Tuesday, September 8, 2009

uncomfortable

The jet lag is a curse. Life with it is so hard. Breaking my fast out of my home is hard for me. I seriously need to lay down after my deprived stomache gets some food. I do need to put my legs up and it is not acceptable because guests should not get too comfortable.

Traffic is an energy drainer, all the shoulds and have to dos steal our days away from us. From Weddings, to Birthdays to Baby showers and more, by the time you attend everyone's event your left with a life of traffic jams and running around trying to make it to all these different places while leaving your dreams behind.

The only people who managed to go after there dreams here have given up on social obligations or have left the place.

We expect people to come to our events, we dread going, they dread coming, they end up going, we end up having to abide by the social norm and making these events that we are not up to, and in the end we all put smiles on and entertain each other, because we love each other but the truth is many of us would rather  stay in with those close to us and have our legs up and wear comfortable clothes. But we all end up going because we love our hosts, we all end up inviting because we love our guests. The question is: what percentage of people really enjoy the whole process? 

1 comment:

  1. " The only people who managed to go after there dreams here have given up on social obligations or have left the place. "

    this is something i finally came to accept !

    " The question is: what percentage of people really enjoy the whole process? "

    if you want an answer , ask those over the age of 50 or 60 , since other r just too caught in it to answer !

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