If it doesn't feel right then it is not right. It is really that simple. If your gut tells u not do it, do not do it! It should feel right whatever it is. Going out with him for a coffee should feel right. The moment he approached you, remember that? before he spoke a word, did u feel good about him?
If it is marriage, if you are thinking twice: RUN!!
Because when it is right it feels right from the first second! Not after two weeks of persuasion. Not after he swore he is not what he is known to be. Not after two weeks of him acting like someone he is not. Remember the first feeling you felt when you saw him, before your mind thought, and before you asked your friends about him.
Your body knows more than your mind, trust it! Be bold!
If it did not feel right for him he would have ran too. We all have our doubts but if your doubts are most of your alone time.If it is keeping you up at night, then there is definitely something wrong. Also if you are considering the possibility of divorce, before marriage, and thinking: If it does not work out we can always get a divorce, know that you are in trouble. The meant to be couples never consider it.
Be brave Stay only if it feels good to stay! There are no favors when it comes to ever after.
A wise man once told me a word of advice on taking big decisions:
Ask your self four questions:
1. Will it hurt me?
2. Will it hurt someone.(if you are thinking I will hurt him if I leave him you wrong because you are really doing him a big favor staying true to your self and him)
If the first two answers are yes you go on to ask the next two:
3. Will I learn something?
4. Is it fun?
If the last two answers are yes you should definitely do whatever it is you are hesitant about.
If the only thing stopping you is fear and what will they say. Know that they will talk but only for a short time because they always find something else. No body stays unhappy out of fear of gossips. In the end everybody does what is fair to them what makes them happy.
And if he always makes you cry and is acting like he does not care, you do not need a gut feeling to show you signs of major trouble. It is not normal, not all couples are like that, and he will not change, and he has no excuse!
Starting to sound a bit like get it he is not into you, but seriously: Get it he is not into you!
Trust your instinct as cliché as that sounds.
This is not first impression bu%$ s&*#, it is the second before that.
Be brave, you will know when it feels right, it will be so different!
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