rules of love

if you go through with love you you need to play by the rules

it is a dangerous game that you need to be careful with

hearts are broken all the time, so be sensitive about dealing with love

once a bond is formed especially a holy one you need to always put your love first

before the crowd, before the organization, before the institution, but not before the one who brought you together in the first place

no cult should come first, no freaky group members should be closer to your soul

no kind of anything should come between this match made under the eyes of heaven

friends are forever but still your partner comes first

parents are everything but now things have changed

now when you start to blame wait a little

before you blow up

remember your partner deserves the best ways of speech

we get on each others nerves sometimes we want to jump on each other with long claws of revenge but there must be a base where you both come first before your gang, your cult, your crowd.

if one is sick, you must ditch the outing and stay with them

if one is tired you must be their home, their comfort zone

if one is scared you must comfort them and provide with all you have to give

when the world points its fingers at one of you the other should not point too

they should have faith even if all the signs point to you

they should back you up even if they think you might be wrong

they should hold you for as long as you need with no hidden agenda

they should treat you like royalty and the best of friends

it is not a war unless you turn it into one

but wait do not lose yourself to a lover who has no clue about the depth of your waters and how much love for you is a sacred thing. keep your old life but stand up for them, keep all your friends but know that they are the best of them, and never take someone else's side, never be the enemy, and do not lose your edges, yes at times you are one but keep your soul one and alone. you have two legs not four, one nose not two, so remember you are still you. although you belong to each other detangle your identity bring back your essence if you lose that they themselves will forget why they loved you. do not become the bee that is busy circling them, make your own plans too, since it seems people make their own plans all the time.

most of all, i repeat most of all do not take sides with anything or anyone else, because they come first, yes they come first. and stay away from meaningless freaky cults.

it is not real whatever it is that is keeping you away and sucking all your time and energy.

and they should always be the first to know about your plans, your daily events, about the good news and the bad news. sharing information is vital in love and keeping things hidden until the last minute kills the love.

the rules of love are serious because when hearts are broken the pain is not simple or subtle it rips you apart and that is not fair and not something normal especially when you know it is becuase your lover has violated a rule of love .

if you cant play by the rules do not fall in love at all.